Sirach 31:18DRA

16Stretch not out thy hand first, lest being disgraced with envy thou be put to confusion.

17Be not hasty in a feast.

18Judge of the disposition of thy neighbour by thyself.

19Use as a frugal man the things that are set before thee: lest if thou eatest much, thou be hated.

20Leave off first, for manners’ sake: and exceed not, lest thou offend.